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Are We Living In a Fantasy World?
Are we living in a fantasy world? A client called me today that I have worked with for some time. She told me about a man that she had been seeing for approximately three weeks in November. He had broken it off with her, saying he wished that she had just listened to him. Now, at the beginning of the New Year, he said that he had some of her things and wanted to return them to her. Her question to me was "is he... (posted by Cheryl 3 years 39 days ago.)
Are we living in a fantasy world? A client called me today that I have worked with for some time. She told me about a man that she had been seeing for approximately three weeks in November. He had broken it off with her, saying he wished that she had just listened to him. Now, at the beginning of the New Year, he said that he had some of her things and wanted to return them to her. Her question to me was "is he... (posted by Cheryl 3 years 39 days ago.)
Attracting a Soul Mate
Thought about what exactly what you're looking for in a soulmate ? To attract what you want in your life, you must have a clear vision of yourself and others. I believe the most effective method to define that vision is to create a list of the qualities you seek in a soul mate. This list gives you a perfect guideline to use for your personal inventory. Here are some important values that you will want to include in your inventory... (posted by Cheryl 4 years 129 days ago.)
Thought about what exactly what you're looking for in a soulmate ? To attract what you want in your life, you must have a clear vision of yourself and others. I believe the most effective method to define that vision is to create a list of the qualities you seek in a soul mate. This list gives you a perfect guideline to use for your personal inventory. Here are some important values that you will want to include in your inventory... (posted by Cheryl 4 years 129 days ago.)
How Do I Talk To My Angels
Im often asked can I speak to my angels and how do I do it?" Its not science, but there are some basic principles that will help you. Youve probably heard from your angels at some time, you just didnt realize it. Its that feeling or voice that says watch out" or makes you feel like you just have to do something. But how do you actively converse with your angels? First you need to get into the right frame of mind and spirit.... (posted by Cheryl 4 years 129 days ago.)
Im often asked can I speak to my angels and how do I do it?" Its not science, but there are some basic principles that will help you. Youve probably heard from your angels at some time, you just didnt realize it. Its that feeling or voice that says watch out" or makes you feel like you just have to do something. But how do you actively converse with your angels? First you need to get into the right frame of mind and spirit.... (posted by Cheryl 4 years 129 days ago.)
Being Out of Shape: What Does It Actually Mean
Not being happy, satisfied or disliking our body is a major block to happiness and awareness. Women especially spend a lot of time wishing their body was different. We have bought into accepted concepts of what is perfect, beautiful and ideal for body shape, and we a police ourselves constantly with thoughts and beliefs such as “my stomach is too big", “my thighs are too fat", “my butt sags", and so... (posted by Cheryl 4 years 129 days ago.)
Not being happy, satisfied or disliking our body is a major block to happiness and awareness. Women especially spend a lot of time wishing their body was different. We have bought into accepted concepts of what is perfect, beautiful and ideal for body shape, and we a police ourselves constantly with thoughts and beliefs such as “my stomach is too big", “my thighs are too fat", “my butt sags", and so... (posted by Cheryl 4 years 129 days ago.)
People With Control Issues
Many of us experience a need to control others. We want others to see things and do things our way. Shostrom (1968) described several types of manipulators: 1.The dictator: wants to control others by orders, i.e. by virtue of his/her authority, position, status, or rank. Such a person believes he/she knows what is right and what you should do. 2.The weakling: controls or defies authority by using his/her weakness, sometimes in... (posted by Cheryl 6 years 213 days ago.)
Many of us experience a need to control others. We want others to see things and do things our way. Shostrom (1968) described several types of manipulators: 1.The dictator: wants to control others by orders, i.e. by virtue of his/her authority, position, status, or rank. Such a person believes he/she knows what is right and what you should do. 2.The weakling: controls or defies authority by using his/her weakness, sometimes in... (posted by Cheryl 6 years 213 days ago.)
Love Addicts and the Emotionally Unavailable
Are you a love addict? Or are you emotionally unavailable? Love addicts give a disproportionate amount of time, attention, and value to the person to whom they are addicted. This value is above the value they place on themselves. The focus often has an obsessive element about it. Love addicts have an unrealistic expectation for unconditional positive regard from their partners in... (posted by Cheryl 6 years 213 days ago.)
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Are you a love addict? Or are you emotionally unavailable? Love addicts give a disproportionate amount of time, attention, and value to the person to whom they are addicted. This value is above the value they place on themselves. The focus often has an obsessive element about it. Love addicts have an unrealistic expectation for unconditional positive regard from their partners in... (posted by Cheryl 6 years 213 days ago.)
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